Saturday, February 8, 2014

Shunammite Woman

Shunammite Woman
2 Kings 4:8-37
Hebrews 11:35

She was a prominent woman.
She was a persuasive woman.
She was a perceptive woman.
She was a practical woman.

Prominent in Hebrew is “gadowl” and literally means “great”
She was also known to be wealthy.

It is the same Hebrew word God used in Genesis 1:16, “God made the two great lights, the greater light to govern the day, and the lesser light to govern the night; He made the stars also.”

This was a woman who shined and stood out above others. In today’s world “standing out” means something different than how we are stand out as Christians.

Matthew 5:16 NASB “Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.”

We are to shine and be prominent in such a way as to glorify God and present to them the gospel. It is not to make ourselves known or to bring attention to how “great” we are. We are to be a reflection of the true light of the world and make sure we are shining His light, not our own.

1 Peter 2:12 NASB “Keep your behavior excellent among the Gentiles, so that in the thing in which they slander you as evildoers, they may on account of your good deeds, as they observe them, glorify God in the day of visitation.”

What do you personally think is a “notable” quality that makes someone great?

What is the world’s definition of a “great” woman? What is God’s definition of a “great” woman?

Persuaded in Hebrew “chazaq” and means “to strengthen, prevail, harden, be strong, become strong, be courageous, be firm, grow firm, be resolute, be sore” -it is a word that involves the idea of helping and aiding.
It is “a verb meaning to be strong, to strengthen, to be courageous, to overpower.”
Here we see her persuade and use her influence for good.

She was serving him and wanted to make a connection with him.
It is the same word God uses when He tells Moses in his persuasion of Joshua’s assignment.

Deuteronomy 3:28 NASB “But charge Joshua and encourage him and strengthen him, for he shall go across  at the head of this people, and he will give them as an inheritance the land which you will see.”

In what ways does God was us to “persuade” our husbands?

In what ways does God want us to “persuade” our children?

Who else can we “persuade”?

Perceive in Hebrew is “yada” and means “to know”
Her perception was smart. It was not mere feeling which is important when it comes to what we’re discerning. We need to learn to perceive things Biblically.

Philippians 1:9 NASB “And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve the things that are excellent, in order to be sincere and blameless until the day of Christ; having been filled with the fruit of righteousness which comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.”

We can lose our perception for the things of God. Pray for soft hearts and open ears. In the busyness of our lives and schedules we can miss out on the things of God.

Practical
We are called to run our homes (very practical)
We are not to serve based on the needs but serve in the leading of the Spirit.

We see her respond practically after her perception and after talking it over with her husband.

Take a moment to look up verses on serving and being a servant:

The Widow of Zarephath

The Widow of Zarephath

A Woman of Poverty

Read 1 Kings 17:7-24

(v.2)

She is a widow.

God was going to physically provide for someone through her.

Jehovah-Jireh means “The Lord will provide”

(v. 10-12)
She had nothing, yet God was going to command her to provide for Elijah. Why do you think the Lord chose her rather than someone who had an abundance of food to provide for Elijah?

(v. 13-15)
She went ahead and walked by faith. She believed the “impossible” and God provided for her every day.

With God all things are possible. We can’t put the same limitations on God. He owns     everything! Why do you think we tend to limit God?

The enemy is after our faith. He does not want us to believe God. He also wants us to be worried and caught up in all the “stuff” of our day to day so it will choke out the life of God in us. (Matthew 13:22)

DO NOT WORRY!
Read Matthew 6:25-34

We naturally worry about what we eat, drink and wear.

Worrying adds no benefit to your life. What DOES worry add to your life though?

v. 28 This is talking about clothes and what to wear! How much more for women could this scripture be?!

We need to grow in the ability to function without worrying. It will drive us and everyone around us nuts! We need to have a day-to-day focus. In what ways can you function practically without worrying?

v. 33 We need to order our hearts. Meaning, we need to prioritize what we are pouring our hearts into.

Are we seeking God? When we find ourselves worrying or holding the world on our shoulders, ask yourself, ‘what was my prayer time like this morning’?

It is in our state of barrenness or poverty that helps us to walk by faith and rely on the Lord.
What areas of barrenness or poverty do you have in your life? God wants you to walk by faith and He Himself wants to provide for you.

The truth is we are so desperate for God but in our flesh we function as much as we possibly can apart from Him (not consciously), unless we purpose ourselves to seek Him and get into His presence so our thinking can be transformed and renewed (Romans 12:1-2)

Romans 12:2 NIV “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is -his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

God will always allow trials and temptations to reveal our desperation for Him.
God loves it when we are in a place where we need Him, but He loves it even more when we see our need for Him.

Philippians 3:8 NIV
“What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ”

No matter what we have or how well off we may feel we are, we are all like this widow. We need God for everything.

Matthew 5:3 NIV
“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”

“First of all, he's not talking about physical poverty, poor in spirit. This is in opposition to being proud, and this is always the inevitable consequence of a man coming into a personal, real confrontation with God. If you have come into a true confirmation of God in your own life, the result immediately always is that of poverty of spirit. You see a person who is proud and haughty, he is a man who has not had a true encounter with God.” -Chuck Smith

(v. 17-18)
The Lord had dealt with the widow’s heart through physical means...and now He was going deeper into her heart with a painful situation.

God always works beyond the physical and He always uses the physical because He is a pursuer of our heart and He is jealous for all of our love and faith.

1 Peter 1:6-9 NIV “In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have some so that your faith -of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire -may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of our souls.”

Sometimes you may be going through something and you respond like this widow did to God.

Hannah was a good example to us of fearing the Lord and pouring out her soul before Him. She shared her burden and her pain with God in a spirit of reverence and submission to Him

If you do not take your pain to God and allow Him to heal you, you will sin. You will be tempted and the enemy of your souls is a wound seeker. He will use your wound (because it becomes a place where you are weak and vulnerable) and he will manipulate you with it. You will not see clearly, you will be deceived easier and won’t have the “strength” to resist.

Proverbs 4:23 NIV
“Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.”

We need to guard our hearts but it is more difficult to guard a wounded heart because a wounded heart messes up our mind.

Psalm 107:20 NKJV
“He sent His Word and healed them, and delivered them from their destructions.”

We will function in destructive ways if we do not let God’s Word heal us.

HEALING
Psalm 41:4 -when we sin
Jeremiah 3:22 -when we backslide
Hosea 6:1 -when God breaks us

Make a personal list of wounds you need God to heal you of:

WE NEED TO PUT GOD ON THE THRONE OF OUR HEARTS FIRST BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE.

1 John 5:21 NIV
“Dear children, keep yourselves from idols.”

The idol of perfection (marriage, children, mothering, home)
What thoughts take up your time and attention?

(v. 24)
BE COMFORTED AND OF GOOD COURAGE!
God has a purpose in our lives. He works things out for good. (Romans 8:28)

He loves us even when we don’t believe. He isn’t moved and His love for us is not changed.

1 John 3:1 NIV
“How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!”

Esther

ESTHER


About her:


The only book of the Bible that doesn’t mention God’s name.


Esther was Jewish and she was from the tribe of Benjamin. She was taken to Babylon around 600 B.C. when the Jews were taken captive.


Esther’s Jewish name is Hadassah which means “myrtle”


Esther means “star” and she most definitely is the “star” in this drama!


Esther was an orphan. Her parents had died.


Esther lived with her uncle Mordecai. He took care of her as his own daughter.


Esther was physically beautiful.


Esther had a specific call from God at a specific time in history. God sovereignly placed you where you are and has a unique calling and purpose for your life at this particular time in history.


1 Corinthians 1:9 NKJV “God is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of His Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.”


Ephesian 4:1 NKJV “I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called,”


1 Peter 2:9 NKJV “But you are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light;”



Setting the Stage:


King Ahasuerus reigned from India to Ethiopia over 127 provinces. 180 show of this royalty and all that he had. He was basically showing off.


The feast was 7 days in the court of the garden. Everything for the feast was beautiful! Beautiful curtains, couches of gold and silver, pearls, marble. It was a royal event! Drinks were served in golden vessels.


The kings orders were to “do as each man desired.” (Esther 1:8)


The queen of King Ahasuerus was Queen Vashti.


Vashti means “beautiful”


She gave a feast for all the women in the palace that belonged to the king. Imagine a week long Women’s Bible Study!


It was the KING that she refused! If you are in leadership, you're actions are magnified and you set the tone and the example. Her rebellion could possibly cause a women's rights movement and the men would see to it that that didn't happen. Obviously women were viewed of as objects to be possessed…no different than today really. Despite all of women's attempts to be viewed as individuals…not by merely what they possess on the outside…the world and society today still holds on to vanity.


We are going to see God’s sovereignty in removing this queen so that one of his own people the position.


The decree of all women giving honor to their husbands. High and low alike (Esther 1:20). Is a godly Biblical principle.


Ephesians 5:33 NKJV “Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”


Esther 2:2 -the young men were probably thinking "so the beautiful young women you don't have maybe we'll get a chance at them."


Huge decisions can be made in one conversation. Never underestimate your influence.


“You can never really live anyone else's life, not even your child's. The influence you exert is through your own life, and what you've become yourself.”  -Eleanor Roosevelt


“Leadership is influence.” -John C. Maxwell


“I have thought a sufficient measure of civilization is the influence of good women.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson


“Only God Himself fully appreciates the influence of a Christian mother in the molding of character in her children.” -Billy Graham



The story begins:



Mordecai was a Jew who lived in Susa who had been carried away with Jeconiah king of Judah during the Babylonian captivity.


Esther is described by her physical beauty but we will see her inner beauty and courage as the story progresses.


She immediately pleased the king and won his favor and was given cosmetics, food, servants and was advanced to the best place in the harem.


What do you think Esther was like to get this kind of favor? What is your personal idea and description of what she was probably like?


Every day Esther updated Mordecai with what was going on. She had a good family relationship! Constant communication.


Esther was a Jew but she did not make that known because Mordecai told her to keep quiet about it. Esther had a submissive spirit and knew her place which is a very attractive quality.


Submission:
James 4:7 NKJV “Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.”


1 Peter 2:13-14 NKJV “Therefore submit yourselves to every ordinance of man for the Lord's sake, whether to the king as supreme, or to governors, as to those who are sent by him for the punishment of evildoers and [for the] praise of those who do good.”


Colossians 3:18 NKJV “Wives, submit to your own husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.”


Esther had gone a whole year of beauty treatments! Six months with oil of myrrh and six months with spices and ointments.


Esther 2:15 -she was a woman who took advice and received counsel and sought wisdom. She had a submissive spirit but look what that brought her! A TON of influence and a position of great authority. She was a woman whom everyone loved…and it wasn't just because of what she looked like! It was WHO she was.


Psalm 90:12 NKJV “So teach us to number our days, That we may gain a heart of wisdom.” This verse is so appropriate for Esther as she truly put her life on the line for her people.


Proverbs 3:13 NKJV “Happy is the man who finds wisdom, And the man who gains understanding;”


Esther 2:20 -Esther was a “good kid”...she wasn’t a rebellious teenager. She was a mature young adult full of hope.


(2:19-23) -God kept giving Esther favor with the king! A lot of the blessing that came with the favor was in her relationship with Mordecai. God know what you need and who needs to be in your life. He is a sovereign God...working things out.


God’s Sovereignty:
Joseph understood - Genesis 50:20 "But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive.”


God has purposes you don’t understand - Deuteronomy 8:2 NKJV "And you shall remember that the LORD your God led you all the way these forty years in the wilderness, to humble you and test you, to know what was in your heart, whether you would keep His commandments or not.”
God got the Israelites out of Egypt but they wandered for 40 years because He had to get Egypt out of their hearts.


God uses circumstances for our good and for His glory - 2 Corinthians 4:14 NKJV “For all things are for your sakes, that grace, having spread through the many, may cause thanksgiving to abound to the glory of God.”


Esther 4


Esther was brave and willing. She didn’t live life to please herself. The world didn’t revolve around her. This is a beautiful quality!


1 Chronicles 15:30 NKJV “Tremble before Him, all the earth. The world also is firmly established, it shall not be moved.”


Psalm 33:8 NKJV “Let all the earth fear the LORD; Let all the inhabitants of the world stand in awe of Him.”


Psalm 89:11 NKJV “The heavens are Yours, the earth also is Yours; The world and all its fullness, You have founded them.”


Esther 5


Queen Esther won favor in the kings sight and he offered her up to half the kingdom. She invited him to a feast she prepared for him.


5:7 -Esther is building the anticipation of the king. You know when someone tells you they have to talk with you about something...and you know it’s serious and you’re wondering what it is and you have to wait???


Proverbs 25:15 NKJV “By long forbearance a ruler is persuaded, and a gentle tongue breaks a bone.”


Esther 6
God is ALWAYS working sovereignly behind the scenes!


6:6 -when you seek to honor yourself you will be brought low. Always humble yourself and you will be lifted higher. Read Luke 14:8-11


Esther 7:1-6


What a scene of drama!


Proverbs 26:27 NKJV “Whoever digs a pit will fall into it, and he who rolls a stone will have it roll back on him.”


Psalm 9:16 NKJV “The LORD is known by the judgment He executes; The wicked is snared in the work of his own hands.”


God moves MIGHTILY in times of “silence”


Psalm 53:7 “He was oppressed and He was afflicted, yet He opened not His mouth; He was led as a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before its shearers is silent, so He opened not His mouth.”


Esther 9


God blessed Esther and heard the cries of His people.
Psalm 72:12 NKJV “For He will deliver the needy when he cries, the poor also, and him who has no helper.”


God turned their mourning into dancing and their fasting into feasting!


Psalm 30:11 NKJV “You have turned for me my mourning into dancing; You have put off my sackcloth and clothed me with gladness,”


Psalm 30:5 NKJV “For His anger is but for a moment, His favor is for life; weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.”


She is now known as Queen Esther. Isn’t it, at one time or another, every girls dream to be a queen? Haven’t we all played that before?


Esther 10


Mordecai became second to the King!!!!!


Esther was brave and bold. Esther lost her life...and by losing it to God’s will...she gained it!

Matthew 10:39 NKJV "He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.”