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Saturday, February 11, 2012

Ruth

—  Ruth  –
Scripture References: Deuteronomy 25:5-10; The Book of Ruth;  Matthew 1:5-6

Her Decision:

Read Ruth 1:1-18

(v. 8-15) Both of the daughters-in-law originally went. Orpah decided to go backwards. Ruth decided to go forwards.

Look over verses 16-18. What were the things that Ruth was determined about? How can you personally be determined by these same things in your walk with God?

“Ruth’s outstanding quality was a beauty of heart, a generosity of soul, a firm sense of duty, and a meekness which often goes hand in hand with decision.” -H. Morton

“Ruth proved to be a woman of decision. Though Naomi had said that she could offer her nothing a woman needs in Judah, Ruth firmly closed the door to her way of life, her family, and her gods and bravely faced a bleak and uncertain future by the side of her destitute mother-in-law.” -Frances Vander Velde

“She did not seek for self-pity neither did she manifest the bitterness that had gripped the heart of Naomi because of her sad lot. Amid the shadows Ruth maintained a poise and a serenity which even her mother-in-law must have coveted.” -Herbert Lockyer

John 14:27 NIV “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”

We can go forward, like Ruth, into the unknown before us. We have the peace of God! He knows all things and through Him we can do all things (Philippians 4:13).

The story of Ruth is a story of God’s sovereignty.

God being “sovereign” means that He has supreme rank, power and authority over all things.

“The most comforting thing to a child of God is the sovereignty of God.” -Charles Spurgeon

Look at your life through the eyes of God’s sovereignty. Ask God to reveal to you ways He sovereignly has worked it out. By faith, look at the circumstances in your life and give an account for how God has been involved.

Psalm 103:19 NASB “The LORD has established His throne in the heavens, and His sovereignty rules over all.”

Our God is EL ELYON: God Most High

As believers we are to take our trials and circumstances and bring them to the Lord and allow Him to give us a positive and heavenly perspective on them. He will use these things to sanctify and purify us more into His image. Having this view we will make ourselves pliable to God for sanctification.

To “sanctify” means “to make holy, purify, consecrate”

Verses on sanctification:

Ephesians 1:4 NASB “just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before Him.”

1 Thessalonians 5:23 NASB “Now may the God of peace Himself sanctify you entirely; and may your spirit and soul and body be preserved complete, without blame at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.”

John 17:17 NASB “Sanctify them in the truth; Thy word is truth.”

2 Corinthians 7:1 NASB “Therefore, having these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all defilement of flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.”

1 Peter 1:14-16 NASB “As obedient children, do not be conformed to the former lusts which were yours in your ignorance, but like the Holy One who called you, be holy yourselves also in all your behavior; because it is written, ‘You shall be holy, for I am holy.’”

Ruth means “friendship”

In a woman like Ruth, you find a friend. What is your personal favorite quality in a friend and why?


Her Faith That Works:

Read Ruth chapter 2 and 3

(ch 2:1) Boaz means “Standing in Strength”

Boaz is a picture of our kinsman redeemer, Jesus Christ. Ruth is a picture of the Bride of Christ; hungry, poor and in need.

(ch 2:2) Ruth stepped out in faith.

Habakkuk 2:4b NASB “But the righteous will live by his faith.”

2 Corinthians 5:7 NKJV “For we walk by faith, not by sight.”

Faith and believing God is so important to Him! As women of God we should be interested in the things that He is interested in. Let this be our prayer.

“Ruth now became Naomi’s means of support. Each family usually had sufficient women to care for the complete needs of the household. There was no work for a woman outside of the home. The poor and the widow would have been destitute, indeed, if God had not provided for them (Lev. 19:9-10). To be a gleaner with the other poor was a humble task. Ruth was not afraid of work (Ruth 2:7) and gleaned from the break of day until the warm red sun left its last glow on the swaying barley and slowly dipped behind the low hills of Judah. “ -Frances Vander Velde

Ruth had a servant heart.

Ways to serve: (taken from Elizabeth George)

●      Service to others -Nurturing a servant’s heart beings with the decision to serve others -anyone and everyone. Jesus Himself models this heart attitude for us, for He “did not come to be served, but to serve” (Matthew 20:28)

●      Service to your husband -God’s Word is clear: “Whatever you do [including serving your husband] so it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men” (Colossians 3:23).

●      Service to your children -As a familiar kitchen plaque reads, “Divine services rendered here three times a day!” It’s true that not only every meal prepared, but also every piece of clothing washed, every room tidied, every floor swept, every ride given is love in action.

●      Service to your church -Married or single, you can exercise your servant heart at your church. There are always meals to take to those in need, pew racks to stock, chairs to set up, and Sunday school classes to teach.

(v. 12) -Boaz recognized who Ruth trusted in when he said “May the Lord reward your work, and your wages be full from the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to seek refuge.”

Boaz saw that by leaving Moab and taking the risk to go to Bethlehem among Jewish people with an old widow that she was walking by faith and trusting in the God of Israel.

“Being one who feared God, and one who cared for the poor, Boaz went among his reapers, spoke kindly to them and earned their benediction. Coming upon Ruth he was arrested by her staid and modest look. Although poorly clad there was dignity in her mien, a refinement giving her distinction, and Boaz is arrested by her beauty and personality. Making inquiries about her, Boaz learns of her sacrifice for Naomi, and of her conversion to the worship of Jehovah (2:6,7), and commands the reapers to purposefully drop extra sheaves for Ruth’s benefit. Boaz also bade Ruth to glean only in his field, and to stand fast by his female workers. He wanted to preserve her from coarse contact with men who might take advantage of such a poor woman, who was in his admiring eyes a superior one. She was not to eat with others but present herself at his feasts.” -Herbert Lockyer

(2:4) You see Boaz walking among everyone as Jesus “Emmanuel -God with us” walked among us, rich and poor alike.

(2:8) Just like Boaz didn’t want Ruth to wander off into another field, the Lord does not want us to wander away from Him where we can find ourselves in danger. His desire is that we stay among Him and His people.

(2:14) Ruth’s servant’s heart inspired Boaz to serve her! What a beautiful picture of honoring and serving one another. Boaz was a man who valued all people. The rich and the poor.

(2:15-16) Because she trusted in God, this man of God gave provision and protection to her.

BOAZ and RUTH

The ultimate CINDERELLA story!

“It’s not about finding the right man, but becoming the right woman.” -Jackie Kendall in Lady in Waiting
               This is heart of a godly woman!
(3:3) Like Ruth, spiritually speaking, as the Bride of Christ we are to wash ourselves with the water of the Word, be anointed with the Holy Spirit, and take of the garment of heaviness and put on the garment of praise.

(3:7) As Ruth laid at the feet of Boaz so are we to lay at the feet of Jesus.

(3:8) “There is nothing immodest or immoral about this. By her actions, Ruth was declaring to Boaz that she desired him to be a spiritual covering for her. ‘You are a near kinsman,’ said Ruth -’my redeemer, my goel, my only hope. Please cover me.’ Here’s the question: Would Boaz do it? Would this wealthy, strong individual stretch his robe to cover a Moabitish woman, a new kid on the block, the one who had no credibility, no credentials, nothing to offer him? What would he do?” -Jon Courson

Remember the mother of Boaz was Rahab.

(ch 3:11) “All the people of my town know that you are a virtuous woman.”

Ruth had a beautiful reputation! This is what captured the heart of Boaz. Character and virtue is beautiful and desirable to a man of God.

*Having a good reputation is a Biblical requirement for widows to be supported by the church. (1 Timothy 5:9-10)

Boaz called Ruth a “virtuous woman.” The Biblical portrait for a virtuous woman is found in Proverbs 31:10-31

Traits of a Proverbs 31 Woman:

verse 10       Noble                                                          verse 21                    Farsighted, looks ahead
verse 11       Trustworthy                                               verse 22     Crafty, creative, takes care of appearance
verse 12       Honors her husband                                 verse 23     Honors her husband publicly and by actions
verse 13       Hardworking                                              verse 24     Acquires skills                              
verse 14       Selective, makes wise choices                 verse 25     Fearless of the future, prepared
verse 15       Has a plan                                                  verse 26     Wise and speaks kindly
verse 16       Thrifty                                                         verse 27     Watchful, diligent homemaker
verse 17       Works willingly                                          verse 28     Praised by her family
verse 18       Makes profitable goods                           verse 29     Excels the mediocre
verse 19       Works hard                                                verse 30     She fears the Lord
verse 20       Generous                                                    verse 31     She earns reward and receives praise

The Law of Kinsman Redeemer
“A kinsman redeemer is a male relative who, according to various laws of the Pentateuch, had the privilege or responsibility to act on behalf of a relative who was in trouble, danger, or in need. The Hebrew term (go el) for kinsman redeemer designates one who delivers or rescues (Gen 48:16; Exodus 6:6) or redeems property or person (Leviticus 27:9-25; 25:47-55). The kinsman who redeems or vindicates a relative is illustrated most clearly in the book of Ruth, where the kinsman-redeemer is Boaz.” (Got Questions Ministries)

(3:14) Start off your day in the presence of Jesus!

Her Marriage:

Read Ruth 4:1-13: From rags to riches!

(4:1-4) The ten elders are a picture of the law. Which came before Jesus, our Redeemer.

Ruth, a Moabitess, picture of the church.  Boaz is a picture of Jesus Christ, the Redeemer.

We are washed with the Word and anointed with the Holy Spirit when we come to the feet of Jesus for redemption. We are redeemed as Jesus fulfilled the Law. Jesus spotted us first just like Boaz spotted Ruth and took note of her before she took note of him. We see the Holy Spirit working the whole thing out! Through the whole story there is unity and redemption for everyone.




Life Lesson:

Just as you came to Jesus at the foot of the cross to redeem you from all of your sin ...enter a marriage relationship with Him as His Bride. Ruth now had a daily relationship with her groom. Jesus has redeemed us at our initial salvation experience but His desire is to redeem us every single day!


Discussion Questions:

1.      What does the name Ruth mean? Compare it with the meaning of the word ruthless. Characterize Ruth.
2.      Was it love for God or for Naomi that determined Ruth’s choice?
3.      What are the main values shown in the book of Ruth?

Friday, August 26, 2011

Rachel

Women of the Bible 
Rachel
Scripture References:
Genesis 29-31; 33:1-7; 35:16-26; 46:19-25; 48:7; Ruth 4:11; 1 Samuel 10:2; Jeremiah 31:15; Matthew 2:18

Her History:
Rachel was a shepherdess

The name Rachel means “ewe” a female lamb. It was implied as a term of endearment. As she was a shepherdess, the Lord was her Shepherd!

Rachel was the daughter of Laban, Rebekah’s brother. So Rachel was Rebekah’s niece.

Rachel had two sons: Joseph and Benjamin

Her Romance:
Read Genesis 29:1-20

Rachel was loved greatly and pursued by Jacob.

Just like we saw with Rebekah we see here with Rachel that God brought about an extra ordinary circumstance while Rachel was faithfully doing her daily chores. It is when we are faithful with our every day responsibilities, working at them with all our heart unto the Lord, that God brings about and accomplishes His will in our life naturally.

Rachel wasn’t off on some journey or quest, she was doing what she was supposed to be doing, tending the sheep.

What responsibilities has God called you to be faithful with, in this season in your life? Take a moment to write them down.

God’s desire is that we be faithful with what He has called us to do and work hard at our responsibilities and He will move us forward and onward! God works and moves in the ordinary circumstances of our every day. He is interested more in our CHARACTER than in what we can do and accomplish for Him.

“We are apt to forget that often the most seemingly ordinary incidents in life are as much of the divine plan as the smallest parts of a watch, and upon these smallest parts of the plan all the others depend. Our steps, when ordered by the Lord, lead to great issue.” -Herbert Lockyer

All the little things DO matter to God!

“As I look back over my life, a major testing of my faith came with our three children, and a few years later, a fourth. (Then there was a period later on when we had four teenagers all at once.) I think God had looked down at me and said, “How are We going to get any fruit of the Spirit into this woman? How can We educate her? I know. We’ll send her to the School of Instant and Constant Motherhood. This is a good curriculum for teaching total dependence, patience, kindness, self-control, love -all the fruit of My Spirit.” -Cynthia Heald, A Woman’s Journey to the Heart of God

In verse 3 we see Jacob went to a well. It is interesting to note that Eliezar, Isaac’s servant, found Rebekah at a well and Jacob encountered Rachel at a well. In Exodus 2:15-21 we read Moses sat down by a well and met Jethro’s seven daughters and married one of them, Zipporah. In the Old Testament you see women finding their future husbands by a well! How much more wonderful the story of Jesus meeting the woman at the well now becomes!

Take a preview of this woman! Read John 4:6-26.

Jesus came and PURSUED this woman. He pursued her heart. In front of everyone He talked with her, He valued her and cared for her. JESUS pursues us! Ask Him to give you eyes to see the ways He is pursuing you!

Jesus wants to intimately pursue you. He knows everything about you but He wants you to know and discover more about Him and how He loves you. He wants to spend time with you so that you will begin to see and discover the ways He loves you!

Jacob waited seven years to marry Rachel.

Waiting is ROMANTIC.

God is waiting for you. Patiently and lovingly God is WAITING for you to discover His love.

Read Romans 8:35-39

What emotions do these scriptures invoke in you?

Read Ephesians 3:14-21.
Are you ready to begin a journey in love with Jesus? He wants to pursue you that you may discover the abundant love He has for you. He wants to give you stories.


Her Marriage:

Read Genesis 29:21-30; 30:1-2

Unfortunately, Rachel’s marriage had a whole lot of drama. What is unveiled through these verses is that Jacobs amazing love for Rachel wasn’t enough. A man’s love and pursuit is not enough to satisfy us!

Colossians 2:10 NKJV
and you are complete in Him, who is the head of all principality and power.

Psalm 145:16 NKJV
You open Your hand and satisfy the desire of every living thing.

Psalm 81:10 NASB
I, the Lord, am your God, who brought you up from the land of Egypt; open your mouth wide and I will fill it.

Isaiah 55:2 NKJV
Why do you spend money for what is not bread, and your wages for what does not satisfy? Listen carefully to Me, and eat what is good, and let your soul delight itself in abundance.

Isaiah 58:11 NKJV
The Lord will guide you continually, and satisfy your soul in drought, and strengthen your bones; you shall be like a watered garden, and a spring of water, whose waters do not fail.

Rachel said “Give me children, or else I die!” Her being was bound up in having children and she was hurting Jacob because he felt his love wasn’t enough for her...because it wasn’t!

When the Lord did provide her with children, she died in giving birth to Benjamin, her second baby boy. In labor she named him “Benoni” which means “son of sorrow”. Children do not satisfy the longings of our heart. Children can bring pain and sorrow to our hearts. Only Jesus satisfies.

Her temptations:
Genesis 30:1 “Now when Rachel saw that she bore Jacob no children, she became jealous of her sister;”

Rachel had given into jealousy. A very ugly and ungodly characteristic! Leah was jealous of Jacob’s love for Rachel and Rachel was jealous of Leah’s fertile womb.

As sisters in Christ we are to love each other. We are to rejoice with our sister who is rejoicing and weep with our sister who is weeping (Romans 12:15)

The woman who is secure in the Lord’s love and her identity in Christ can point out the wonderful qualities and talents her sisters in Christ have and encourage and love them. NOT pointing out her flaws or making a slight jab or a joke to her, especially in front of others.

Here are examples of what not to say compared to the right heart attitude:

Wrong -“She is a little consumed with her appearance.” Right- “Wow, she is so beautiful and takes good care of herself.”

Wrong - “She puts her children before her husband.” Right-“She has such a great ability to love children.”

Wrong - “She’s always at home and never gets together with us.” Right- “She is a great homemaker and has such peace in her home.”

Wrong - “She has her priorities out of whack” Right-“God has opened opportunities for her in her workplace. How exciting!”


Her motherhood:

Children are God’s gift to give!

Rachel turned her cry for children into prayer. Genesis 30:22 “Then God remembered Rachel, and God gave heed to her and opened her womb.”

Rachel’s was the first recorded instance in the Bible of death through childbirth.

Read Jeremiah 31:15 and Matthew 2:18

“Rachel’s cry for children was prophetic of the slaughter of the innocents when Christ was born (Matthew 2:16-18). Jeremiah pictures Rachel as rising from the grave to weep over the children being carried away to Babylon, never to return (Jeremiah 31:15). Thus the ‘Benoni’ of Rachel’s heart as she died has been re-echoed throughout the entire history of Israel.” –Herbert Lockyer

Life Lesson:
Only Jesus satisfies!
Psalm 62:5 NKJV
My soul, wait silently for God alone, for my expectation is from Him.
Psalm 86:10 NKJV
For You are great, and do wondrous things; You alone are God.